My new year was a combination with lots of emotion.. sad, angry, anxious, panic, worried, depressed, rude, ignored, obnoxious, upset, dissatisfied, annoyed and a lot of actions involved, shouting, laughter and love :D
The actions happened between hubby and me, of course. We were both being angry, depressed, dissatisfied, annoyed to the point of being rude to each other because we were panic, worried, sad, obnoxious and upset. We were shouting, blaming and I started ignoring him after a few minutes because I realized that he said something that made me thinking that 'he is not himself right now', he was trying to annoy the hell out of me actually. Ohhh mmm gee, if you saw us fighting and shouting that time, you'll be surprised that we were laughing our self together after that, lol!
What happened on new year day?
We were at my hometown to attend my cousin's wedding, we drove from town at 9am++ and arrived around 11am++, it was raining the whole time on the way to my hometown. We waited my mum at my aunt's house to go together to my cousin house, but because I'm too hungry and it's already 1.30pm++, I told my hubby that we better go ahead.
Upon arriving at a specific junction, I suddenly realized that I don't remember which junction to take exactly. Last time I went there was three years ago and I'm not the one driving so I don't remember that much. What I remember is there is one junction that we always take since childhood (I grew up in my village until I'm six years old before move out to town), but the road looks bushy and looks like it's not being used for quite sometime already, so I was skeptical to take that road. Nevertheless, I told my hubby just to take sneak peak to that junction and he drove slowly entering the junction. The road was gravel, muddy and slippery because of the rain. The gravel road descends (30 degrees) to a small stream and I assumed there is a low level crossing somewhere across the stream but can't be seen because of heavy rain this morning.
We stopped half way before reaching the low level crossing (which I assumed there is), this time we both know that it was unlikely our small car can move across that stream and then up the steep (almost 45 degrees angled), rocky, muddy, gravel road on the other side. Hubby was trying to reverse the car but to our horror, the car can't move that much because the gravel road was muddy and slippery. This time we started to panic, worried and anxious. After a few times trying but still couldn't reverse the car, hubby suddenly drove forward down the stream and I'm worried that it will worsen the situation if we move forward and thus the fighting began... (let's just skip this part, lol!)
Okay, now we were already at the side of the stream. We starting shouting and I was so upset with him. At one point of the shouting event, my hubby made a statement (with judgmental tone I tell you) that he will never say under normal circumstances or even when he try to make me angry. For a second, I was angry when I heard it, but then I was like "eh? something is not right... it sounded too simple". Being with my hubby for years already, I know that the words he use to annoy people don't have to be coated with critical tone but sarcastic tone, yes. This time, it sounded too easy to understand ;p
I returned his 'judgmental statement' with ignorance. Yes, I just ignored him, hahahaha (evil mode). I realized that there is no point arguing because both of us were picking holes in the argument, proof is he used simple words and making sentence too easy to understand! which is not like him at all, lol!
Finally, we left our car stranded at the side of the stream and walked upward to the main road waiting for any relatives to pass by. Not long after that, we saw a pickup lorry, quickly hubby waved to them and they stopped, they agreed to give us a ride to my aunt's house. We sat at the back of the pickup lorry and despite the fresh breeze, beautiful green scenery at left and right of the road, the sound of calm stream along the way, we continue arguing.
When both of us can't understand what the other said or even our own sentences, we suddenly laughed. We laughed and still continue arguing until we reached my aunt's house.... no, actually until we were on the way back to town. It was already around 8pm++.
It became the most frustrated, annoying and hilarious journey of our new year day. My hubby said that we should never allow our self to enter Amazing Race. I agreed :)
